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Stone-by-stone advice for everyday wear

How to Clean, Store and Care for Your Gemstones

In short: Clean hard, untreated stones such as sapphire, ruby, topaz, aquamarine, garnet and amethyst with lukewarm water, a few drops of mild soap, a gentle brush and a careful rinse. Emerald, opal, pearl, turquoise, lapis and moonstone need only a soft damp cloth, with no soaking, ultrasonic or steam cleaners, or chemicals. Store every piece separately.

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In this article
  1. Five rules that protect almost every stone
  2. Why some stones need more care than others
  3. Care table for common gemstones
  4. How to clean gemstone jewellery
  5. Storing your stones
  6. Wearing habits that make a difference
  7. Signs a piece needs a jeweller
  8. Looking after astrological rings
  9. Choosing a stone that suits your life

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Short answer: for hard, untreated stones such as sapphire, ruby, topaz, aquamarine, garnet and amethyst, a soak in lukewarm water with a few drops of mild soap, a gentle brush and a careful rinse is all you need. Emerald, opal, pearl, turquoise, lapis and moonstone need gentler handling: a soft damp cloth only, no soaking, no ultrasonic or steam cleaners, and no chemicals. Store every piece separately so harder stones cannot scratch softer ones, and take rings off before housework, sport and swimming.

Most damage to gemstones comes from habits rather than accidents: the wrong cleaner, a jewellery box where everything rubs together, or a ring left on while scrubbing pots. Below you will find why stones differ, a care table for common gems, step-by-step cleaning methods, storage advice, and special notes for astrological rings.

Five rules that protect almost every stone

  1. Put jewellery on last (after perfume, lotion and hair spray) and take it off first.
  2. Remove rings for cleaning, cooking, gardening, the gym, swimming and sleep.
  3. Clean with mild soap and lukewarm water, or a damp cloth for delicate stones – nothing stronger.
  4. Store each piece on its own, in a soft pouch or a lined compartment.
  5. Have settings checked regularly, especially on rings worn every day.

Why some stones need more care than others

Three properties decide how a stone should be treated:

  • Hardness (the Mohs scale, 1–10) is resistance to scratching. Ordinary dust contains quartz, which is hardness 7, so stones softer than 7 can slowly lose their polish just from being wiped with a dusty cloth.
  • Toughness is resistance to chipping and breaking. It is not the same as hardness: emerald is fairly hard but often brittle because of its fractures, while nephrite jade is softer but very tough.
  • Stability is resistance to heat, light, moisture and chemicals. Opal can crack with sudden heat or dryness, some amethyst and kunzite can fade in strong sunlight, and porous stones absorb oils and perfume.

Care table for common gemstones

StoneMohs hardnessWatch out forSafe cleaning
Sapphire and ruby9Glass-filled stones are damaged by heat, acids and ultrasonic cleaningWarm soapy water, soft brush
Topaz8Perfect cleavage: can split from a sharp knockWarm soapy water
Emerald7.5–8Brittle; oil or resin filling affected by heat and solventsCool or lukewarm water, soft cloth, no ultrasonic
Aquamarine7.5–8Generally sturdyWarm soapy water
Tourmaline7–7.5Avoid sudden temperature changesWarm soapy water
Amethyst and citrine7Colour can fade in prolonged strong lightWarm soapy water
Garnet6.5–7.5Avoid sudden heatWarm soapy water
Peridot6.5–7Sensitive to acids and sudden heatLukewarm soapy water, gently
Tanzanite6–7Brittle; avoid knocks, ultrasonic and steamLukewarm soapy water, soft cloth
Moonstone and labradorite6–6.5Cleave easily if knockedMild soap, soft cloth
Opal5.5–6.5Heat, dryness and sudden temperature change; never soak doublets or tripletsDamp soft cloth only
Turquoise, lapis lazuli and malachite3.5–6Porous: absorb oils, perfume, sweat and soapy water; malachite is soft and acid-sensitiveDry or barely damp cloth
Pearl and amber2–4.5Acids, perfume, heat, scratches; amber is also damaged by solventsWipe with a soft damp cloth after wearing

How to clean gemstone jewellery

Method A: hard, non-porous stones

Use this for untreated or heated sapphire, ruby, topaz, aquamarine, tourmaline, garnet, amethyst, citrine and (gently) peridot, provided the stone is not glass-filled and the setting is secure.

  1. Fill a bowl, not the sink, with lukewarm water and a few drops of mild washing-up liquid.
  2. Leave the piece to soak for 10–15 minutes to loosen skin oils and dirt.
  3. Brush gently around and behind the stone with a very soft toothbrush. Dirt trapped under a stone blocks light and is the main reason stones look dull.
  4. Rinse in clean lukewarm water.
  5. Pat dry with a lint-free or microfibre cloth and let it air-dry fully before putting it away.

Method B: delicate, porous or treated stones

Use this for emerald, opal, pearl, turquoise, lapis, malachite, moonstone and amber.

  1. Dampen a soft cloth with plain lukewarm water (not hot).
  2. Wipe the stone and setting gently. Do not soak.
  3. Dry straight away with a second soft cloth.

Never brush opal or pearl, never let turquoise or lapis sit in soapy water, and never put an emerald in hot water, which can draw out the oil that hides its fractures. Wipe pearls after each wear, because sweat and perfume slowly dull the nacre.

What never to use

  • Ultrasonic cleaners – generally fine for untreated or heated sapphire and ruby, but risky for emerald, opal, pearl, tanzanite, turquoise, moonstone, topaz and any fracture-filled stone.
  • Steam cleaners – the sudden heat can crack opal, emerald and heavily included stones.
  • Household chemicals – bleach, chlorine, ammonia, vinegar, toothpaste and baking soda can etch porous stones, scratch polish and damage metal. Remove rings before swimming in chlorinated water.
  • Paper towels and tissues – their fibres can scratch soft stones and metal. Use microfibre or a jeweller's cloth.

Storing your stones

The most common cause of a scratched stone is another stone. A sapphire loose in a box with an opal or a pearl will scratch it. Keep each piece in its own soft pouch or lined compartment, and:

  • keep opal away from heat and very dry air – in a dry winter, a slightly damp cloth stored nearby (not touching) can help;
  • keep amethyst, citrine, kunzite and rose quartz out of direct sunlight;
  • let pearls breathe: avoid sealed plastic bags, and wear them regularly;
  • store silver settings with an anti-tarnish strip – tarnish does not harm the stone but dulls the metal.

Wearing habits that make a difference

Rings take the most punishment. An astrological stone worn day and night in an open-back setting should have its claws checked by a jeweller every few months, because replacing a lost stone costs far more than tightening a prong. Bezel settings, which wrap metal around the stone's edge, protect softer stones such as opal and turquoise better than claws.

Signs a piece needs a jeweller

  • The stone moves, rattles or turns in its setting.
  • Claws look bent, thin or worn – silver wears faster than gold.
  • An emerald's fractures have become more visible; a lapidary may be able to re-oil it.
  • A hard stone looks scratched or dull; professional re-polishing can usually restore it.

If you are unsure whether a piece needs attention, send us a message on WhatsApp and we will tell you what to look for.

Looking after astrological rings

An astrological ring usually touches the skin all day, so it gathers more skin oil and sweat than other jewellery. Clean it about once a week with Method A or B, depending on the stone. Many people also follow the tradition of rinsing the ring in raw milk or clean water on the planet's day. That is harmless for sapphire, ruby, yellow sapphire and garnet, but do not soak pearl, coral, opal or emerald. Tradition also holds that a chipped or cracked stone should be replaced. For more on wearing customs, see neelam benefits and how to wear it and gemstones by rashi.

Choosing a stone that suits your life

Care starts before you buy. If you want a ring to wear every day, choose a hard, tough stone such as sapphire, ruby or garnet; keep opal, pearl and turquoise for pendants, earrings or occasional wear. Browse the GemStore collection – each stone is photographed as it is and priced individually – and ask us if you would like advice on durability before you choose.

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Common questions

Something else on your mind? Ask us directly — we answer on WhatsApp during working hours.

How should I clean a sapphire or ruby ring?

Soak it in lukewarm water with a little mild soap, brush gently behind the stone with a soft toothbrush, rinse and dry. Glass-filled rubies need gentler care with no heat or chemicals.

Can I use an ultrasonic cleaner on gemstones?

Only on sturdy stones such as untreated or heated sapphire and ruby. Avoid it for emerald, opal, pearl, tanzanite, turquoise, moonstone, topaz and any filled stone.

Why has my emerald started to look dull?

Most emeralds are oiled, and heat, solvents or harsh cleaning can remove the oil so fractures show. A lapidary can often re-oil the stone.

How should I store gemstone jewellery?

Keep each piece separately in a soft pouch or lined compartment, away from heat and direct sunlight, so harder stones cannot scratch softer ones.

Can I wear my gemstone ring every day?

Hard stones such as sapphire, ruby and garnet cope well with daily wear. Opal, pearl and turquoise are softer and suit occasional wear or pendants.

Is it safe to wash an astrological ring in milk?

A brief rinse is harmless for sapphire, ruby, yellow sapphire and garnet. Do not soak pearl, coral, opal or emerald.

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